Stop gaslighting people, who are not afraid, with "-phobia" terms.

WEBVTT 1 00:00:00.000 --> 00:00:09.070 Yeah, you know what it feels like to me. So I was imagining 2 00:00:09.109 --> 00:00:11.750 the imagine you have a job where you've got, like, if you've been 3 00:00:11.830 --> 00:00:17.510 there while, decent pay whatever, but you got good benefits and then one 4 00:00:17.550 --> 00:00:21.699 day, or over the course of couple years, even the management has slowly 5 00:00:21.739 --> 00:00:25.140 been changing and changing. Well, one day now we got a new boss 6 00:00:25.300 --> 00:00:30.339 and finally the tables have turned and you're losing all your benefits. You can 7 00:00:30.379 --> 00:00:34.579 still work here and you still get the Shitty pay, but you losing your 8 00:00:34.659 --> 00:00:39.090 benefits. That's with all these fucking white these are mad about they're losing their 9 00:00:39.130 --> 00:00:43.210 fucking white privilege and they're mad. They don't they don't address it as such, 10 00:00:43.810 --> 00:00:46.289 but at the core that's what it is. It's like people losing their 11 00:00:46.329 --> 00:00:49.369 benefits. You had a benefit that was white privilege, and now you losing 12 00:00:49.409 --> 00:00:55.439 it and you just outrage and blaming everybody. Right, it's disguised racism, 13 00:00:55.479 --> 00:01:02.960 yeah, and just outright anger, you know, because they're losing their being 14 00:01:03.039 --> 00:01:07.790 though, that every they have no problem cutting all these benefits that help other 15 00:01:10.829 --> 00:01:15.549 minorities and don't want to help the minorities. They they feel that they should 16 00:01:15.549 --> 00:01:19.260 be working hard and, you know, working for the man. Yeah, 17 00:01:19.299 --> 00:01:23.459 I got they should be appreciative of God, Damn it. Don't create, 18 00:01:23.780 --> 00:01:29.260 just fucking work for us. Yeah, exactly, these fuckers. We don't 19 00:01:29.299 --> 00:01:32.859 want to incurage creation on that side. They just don't. We just want 20 00:01:32.890 --> 00:01:36.930 to follow what what the Bible tells us to do. We want to throw 21 00:01:37.010 --> 00:01:42.849 out Bible. That's so crazy to these fucking anti abortion people. I mean, 22 00:01:42.290 --> 00:01:46.370 did that? Do Taxes? Like, what the fuck? Just read 23 00:01:46.409 --> 00:01:49.519 a great story this morning about Texas. So you know what, what might 24 00:01:49.040 --> 00:01:57.120 the Saviors of Texas abortion law? The satanist. So on. The satanist 25 00:01:57.760 --> 00:02:02.829 said, Hey, wait a second, we're a religion too and we have 26 00:02:02.989 --> 00:02:07.669 a right to our religious beliefs, and one of them is to allow us 27 00:02:07.909 --> 00:02:16.099 the fucking ceremonial abortion, like Oh man, but it's factual. They're filing 28 00:02:16.180 --> 00:02:21.300 a lawsuit with the State Supreme Court in Texas. That says, Hey, 29 00:02:21.379 --> 00:02:25.379 wait a second, this band against abortion is now impeding our religious rights. 30 00:02:25.460 --> 00:02:30.770 So if one religion has rights, they all have rights and they might actually 31 00:02:30.770 --> 00:02:37.729 have a case. The fact that we are still in this thing where the 32 00:02:37.969 --> 00:02:44.919 right is always hmm, anti abortion. I we we determine what goes on 33 00:02:45.080 --> 00:02:49.159 in your body to they're so fucking old time if they keep trying to drive 34 00:02:49.159 --> 00:02:51.680 it, you know, drag us back to the S A, the black 35 00:02:51.759 --> 00:02:53.800 and white days. Is that what they want? They want us to live 36 00:02:53.840 --> 00:02:58.750 in the black and white days? Scary, I'm sure that pick it fence 37 00:02:58.789 --> 00:03:02.469 Andy Griffith thing is fuck all and leave it to deeber. Father knows best. 38 00:03:02.590 --> 00:03:07.750 All those old time ETV shows on me TV. That's what Republicans wanted 39 00:03:07.789 --> 00:03:09.710 to be like were. You barely ever see any kind of black person, 40 00:03:10.110 --> 00:03:15.939 let alone a Asian person or Mexican. You never see a Mexican and mayberry 41 00:03:15.539 --> 00:03:20.860 authoritarian very much. Yeah, that's the thing, right, because they think, 42 00:03:21.139 --> 00:03:23.139 well, I'm not I don't know what other people think, but it 43 00:03:23.219 --> 00:03:25.780 seems like they think, well, our only way to keep our benefits is 44 00:03:25.819 --> 00:03:30.250 if we just fucking take it over and tell people what to do. Yeah, 45 00:03:30.770 --> 00:03:37.009 exactly. Never worked in history. Fascist dictator then looking in badly, 46 00:03:38.370 --> 00:03:40.919 and I mean like, for example, here this this recall thing, to 47 00:03:42.039 --> 00:03:46.680 recall newsome is a Republican little ploy. It has nothing to do with the 48 00:03:47.039 --> 00:03:51.120 other side. There's not Democrats out there go like, Oh my God, 49 00:03:51.199 --> 00:03:53.439 we got a we gotta call that guy he's just not doing the democratic thing. 50 00:03:53.840 --> 00:03:59.110 It's just fucking trols try, you know, testing the system. And 51 00:03:59.270 --> 00:04:01.550 that true, exactly that. You know what, if you think about it, 52 00:04:01.750 --> 00:04:08.310 it's similar to the tech people trying to disrupt things. This is the 53 00:04:08.389 --> 00:04:13.060 way the Republicans disrupt the political system. Yeah, because they know the media 54 00:04:13.139 --> 00:04:16.180 will jump right on board and make it a story every fucking day. Yep, 55 00:04:16.660 --> 00:04:20.180 that's a sick yeah, US the fucking actually California was liberal. How 56 00:04:20.180 --> 00:04:25.689 did that even happen? It is liberal. It's just the fact that there 57 00:04:25.970 --> 00:04:30.250 is some I think there's a vision. I'm on the right, that just 58 00:04:30.529 --> 00:04:36.410 know how to gain attention and go through the proper, shall we say, 59 00:04:36.449 --> 00:04:42.879 systems of yeah, you know, if we get enough signatures, we can 60 00:04:42.920 --> 00:04:44.920 have a recall. Well, here's how they do it, Dude, and 61 00:04:44.959 --> 00:04:46.600 they've done it for the last as long as I've been watching, thirty or 62 00:04:46.639 --> 00:04:54.110 forty years. Republicans stick together. Democrats don't. Democrats splinter, because once 63 00:04:54.269 --> 00:04:58.550 Democrats get into power, all of a sudden every little fucking subgroup, some 64 00:04:58.750 --> 00:05:01.509 little niche of Democrats, is like now we want more power, we want 65 00:05:01.550 --> 00:05:04.750 more power. Very different start shitting on each other and they stand in a 66 00:05:04.910 --> 00:05:10.939 circular firing range and they're just pegging each other off. And now they're divided. 67 00:05:11.220 --> 00:05:15.100 Now the Republicans. You notice, like whenever Republicans get accused of like 68 00:05:15.620 --> 00:05:18.980 molestation or child trafficking or anything like that, they don't do shit. They 69 00:05:19.100 --> 00:05:23.970 circle the wagons and they fucking don't say Shit and they don't resign, they 70 00:05:23.970 --> 00:05:27.930 don't do anything. They basically fuck you. Prove it. Democrats that one 71 00:05:27.970 --> 00:05:31.970 another. Yeah, the moment any Democrat even smells fucking fishy, the all 72 00:05:32.089 --> 00:05:34.410 turn on them. Get Him Out, get him out like Al Frank and 73 00:05:34.449 --> 00:05:39.360 the Al Frank and his ass. Yep, Ye, totally, yeah. 74 00:05:39.519 --> 00:05:44.000 That's why they'll never fully be right. That's I just can't stand watching it 75 00:05:44.120 --> 00:05:46.759 anymore. It's ridiculous. We need definitely all the other parties, not a 76 00:05:46.839 --> 00:05:49.790 third party, but like the third, fourth, fifth through twenty parties. 77 00:05:50.269 --> 00:05:56.629 Need to get more people involved. Well, it's the non viable candidate, 78 00:05:56.990 --> 00:06:01.069 non viable third party. Like who the fucked says non viable? The media? 79 00:06:01.430 --> 00:06:05.420 So the media controls who's a viable party or not. Well, is 80 00:06:05.459 --> 00:06:12.100 the Libertarian candidate a viable third party candidate? I'll fuck you, he doesn't. 81 00:06:12.620 --> 00:06:17.339 He doesn't. He doesn't go by our standards and practices and total lots 82 00:06:17.379 --> 00:06:21.089 of work for us. It's not a corporatist, he's not a capitalists. 83 00:06:21.889 --> 00:06:31.290 He questions too many things. Dude, I was reading a thing. Let's 84 00:06:31.329 --> 00:06:36.800 look a second ago. So you know when this there's a too. Here's 85 00:06:36.839 --> 00:06:45.839 a tooth for a Toofour fucking story topic thing. So people that have autism 86 00:06:46.160 --> 00:06:49.790 do what they call self stim they stimulate themselves, not, it's not like 87 00:06:49.910 --> 00:06:53.990 it sounds and is. Basically they tap their fingers a bunch, kind of 88 00:06:53.990 --> 00:06:57.670 like I do whatever, fidgeting a lot. So that's that's one thing. 89 00:06:58.189 --> 00:07:02.620 But there's a new thing called they've just studying that. It's not a new 90 00:07:02.740 --> 00:07:08.300 thing, but they're studying the phenomena. They gave it the name Miso Keynesia, 91 00:07:09.860 --> 00:07:16.610 and Meso Kynesia is if somebody fidgeting is driving you fucking crazy. Oh 92 00:07:16.769 --> 00:07:21.970 yeah, so if somebody else is fidgeting drives you crazy, you might have 93 00:07:23.649 --> 00:07:31.120 Miso Keynesia. Would just relay member me so Phonia, Misso Phonia, I 94 00:07:31.240 --> 00:07:35.199 think I know, honey, Missa Hony, I think I have Misso Phonia 95 00:07:35.279 --> 00:07:42.879 because I can't stand when people start making fucking unnecessary noises around me, or 96 00:07:42.920 --> 00:07:46.189 I hear on Y, you do it too. Oh No, that. 97 00:07:46.709 --> 00:07:49.269 I'm in charge of my fucking environment and I want to be the only one 98 00:07:49.430 --> 00:07:55.509 making noises and fidgeting. If anyone else is doing it, NUB starts to 99 00:07:55.509 --> 00:08:01.579 vibrate too closely with my own frequency and then it's like interference. So selfish 100 00:08:01.699 --> 00:08:07.259 bastard. Yeah, Misso Phonia and Miso Keynesia. So those are interesting right, 101 00:08:07.339 --> 00:08:11.019 that those are actually things. But here's where I tripped out. So, 102 00:08:11.300 --> 00:08:15.490 as I'm taking a shower this morning, I'm thinking of yeah, people 103 00:08:15.850 --> 00:08:24.129 irritated with other people's movement is called Meso Keynesia. But yet for all these 104 00:08:24.209 --> 00:08:31.519 years the red necks that were irritated with like gay people were called Homophobic, 105 00:08:31.519 --> 00:08:35.120 and I'm like, wait a second, why are we saying they fear homosexuals 106 00:08:35.159 --> 00:08:41.110 when really they're just irritated by homosexuals? Right, okay, they're so why 107 00:08:41.230 --> 00:08:48.990 don't we call them me so homo? I mean, it's not my fault 108 00:08:48.990 --> 00:08:52.789 that word comes out sounding so Dorky and funny, but I mean seriously, 109 00:08:52.909 --> 00:08:56.899 it's like, oh, he's got me so homia. What's that? It's 110 00:08:56.940 --> 00:09:00.899 not hatred of gays. He's just irritated with them. It's a new word 111 00:09:00.940 --> 00:09:05.379 I made up. Well, it's I'm just combining to too Greek words like 112 00:09:05.500 --> 00:09:07.980 they're doing here. So, in other words, Miso Kenesia. Why isn't 113 00:09:07.980 --> 00:09:13.929 that like Kennisia? Phobia? Right, I fear you making a fucking fidgeting 114 00:09:13.970 --> 00:09:18.129 movement because, well, what it gets down to is like, why are 115 00:09:18.169 --> 00:09:20.610 we assigning fear when there's no fear? Most of the people I know that 116 00:09:20.690 --> 00:09:26.639 are straight, that are I don't know, I don't even actually know any 117 00:09:26.679 --> 00:09:30.240 boy be called homophobic, but the people I've seen that I would call homophobic, 118 00:09:30.240 --> 00:09:33.679 let's put it that way. They are I miss applied the term. 119 00:09:33.759 --> 00:09:39.070 They aren't really fraid of gays either, they just don't like them, and 120 00:09:39.190 --> 00:09:41.269 I think that's a huge distinction. Instance, I'm really into words. I 121 00:09:41.350 --> 00:09:48.669 think we should fix that and just call them miss a Homeia. Go for 122 00:09:48.830 --> 00:09:50.669 it, I'm going to start calling all these cowboys out here and Missa Homia. 123 00:09:52.659 --> 00:09:54.820 They're gonna look at you. Well, what, what? What? 124 00:09:56.259 --> 00:09:58.899 Where you from? A city? You, you, you wanted them smart 125 00:09:58.940 --> 00:10:03.779 White Boys, aren't you? Fucking city you read? Huh? I live 126 00:10:03.860 --> 00:10:05.139 in the city. To these people, when I go out to the sticks, 127 00:10:05.179 --> 00:10:07.850 Dude, they look me up and down. You're not where are you 128 00:10:09.009 --> 00:10:13.529 from? I'm like the city, like not here, but I just say 129 00:10:13.610 --> 00:10:16.450 the city because, you know, whatever, it's the same to them. 130 00:10:16.490 --> 00:10:20.289 They don't care if it's Oklahoma City or Dallas or fucking La. I don't 131 00:10:20.330 --> 00:10:26.080 think it's just CITP. You're like, I'm from OKAC yeah, that to 132 00:10:26.200 --> 00:10:30.039 them. I might as well say Hollywood. Some of these people are so 133 00:10:30.159 --> 00:10:33.080 far in the sticks. Okay, see, to him is the big city. 134 00:10:33.480 --> 00:10:37.429 We go there once a year, on a good year. So back 135 00:10:37.509 --> 00:10:43.629 to the fidgeting thing. One example was when Bob had me on his podcast 136 00:10:43.750 --> 00:10:48.110 and he sat right across from me. He would sit there and eat. 137 00:10:48.269 --> 00:10:52.539 You know those people that take a pen and click it constantly. Sure, 138 00:10:54.059 --> 00:10:58.860 okay, he did that in front of me while I'm trying to tell this 139 00:10:58.059 --> 00:11:01.500 story on my kind of goes along with what you're talking about. It just 140 00:11:01.659 --> 00:11:05.409 irritated the piss out of me and I literally grab the pen out of his 141 00:11:05.490 --> 00:11:13.169 hand. I'm like, fucking Bob, stop, yeah, you're fucking KNEESYOBE, 142 00:11:13.649 --> 00:11:18.639 you're a kinesio phone. So but it yeah, it's distracting. Annoying 143 00:11:18.960 --> 00:11:24.759 and again for me because of you know, the way my attention span is 144 00:11:24.879 --> 00:11:28.600 is. You know, if I see a shiny bright thing in of the 145 00:11:28.000 --> 00:11:31.559 peripheral vision of my eye, it's like Squirrel. Oh Yeah, for sure, 146 00:11:33.830 --> 00:11:39.350 he's a little distracted and it takes me away from my flow of conversation. 147 00:11:39.429 --> 00:11:43.750 Right. Yeah, I mean I have some fragile scientific equipment up here 148 00:11:43.789 --> 00:11:50.059 in my skull and sometimes I need optimal conditions for it to operate. And 149 00:11:50.139 --> 00:11:52.460 if you're like clicking a pin, oh for sure I'm going to notice that. 150 00:11:54.059 --> 00:11:56.820 Even if, like, you're in the bathroom taking a shit and I 151 00:11:56.899 --> 00:12:01.179 just hear some weird noise, like you're spinning the toilet paper roll around in 152 00:12:01.299 --> 00:12:03.129 circles or something, I'm probably going to get up from my seat and go 153 00:12:03.210 --> 00:12:05.250 say, dude, what the fuck's going on in there, you know, 154 00:12:05.409 --> 00:12:09.730 just because any weird little noise I'm super sensitive to and I gotta go check 155 00:12:09.769 --> 00:12:16.759 it out I'm distractedly, leaks has a lot to do with us being driving 156 00:12:16.840 --> 00:12:22.360 alone for as long as we have no I think it's our hyperactive brains. 157 00:12:22.399 --> 00:12:26.200 I think I think it's a little bolt. HMM, I don't know, 158 00:12:30.000 --> 00:12:31.789 Dude. My Dad used to whack me one time. You got me good. 159 00:12:31.870 --> 00:12:35.190 You back atted me as his ring on his finger when he was driving 160 00:12:35.350 --> 00:12:39.470 and I was in the passenger seat and I was just tapping, you know, 161 00:12:39.750 --> 00:12:41.429 some songs on the radio and I was just tipped tip of the dead 162 00:12:41.429 --> 00:12:46.980 dude that did the deep fucking smack, like damn, wow, he's mad, 163 00:12:48.500 --> 00:12:52.340 like wow, okay, dad, do you know I'm doing rhythm here. 164 00:12:52.460 --> 00:12:54.779 This isn't a distract or bother you. It's like I'm are, I'm 165 00:12:54.779 --> 00:12:58.049 drumming on something. I'm making the drumming sounds of what I'm hearing. Yeah, 166 00:12:58.169 --> 00:13:01.649 no apparel. According to this, he's got some Misso Knesia, or 167 00:13:03.049 --> 00:13:07.450 he's a Kinnesia phobe. You don't like movement, you're a Kinesia phobe. 168 00:13:09.490 --> 00:13:16.440 You don't like sounds, you're a phonyaphobe. or I'm irritated with gays, 169 00:13:16.279 --> 00:13:28.830 I'm Miso Homo. And now back to the wall.