Narcissistic Personality Disorder

WEBVTT 1 00:00:02.120 --> 00:00:09.910 It's only head and now it's online Bible, this stylecom yes, join emotions 2 00:00:10.150 --> 00:00:17.789 with Bible style. We'll see. quit looking at my work in progress. 3 00:00:18.269 --> 00:00:23.339 You fucking up my flow as an artist. Do you like people to watch 4 00:00:23.420 --> 00:00:28.899 you do your art? I wouldn't stay, so I wouldn't know. That's 5 00:00:28.940 --> 00:00:32.340 why I like when I see street artists, cartoonists, like drawing people on 6 00:00:32.420 --> 00:00:36.570 the street at the fisherman's war, for whatever man they got to work with 7 00:00:36.609 --> 00:00:40.090 people just staring at him. Yeah, that's head a right dicause that's not 8 00:00:40.210 --> 00:00:43.329 really watching me draw these people. Yeah, and it's like their family member. 9 00:00:43.450 --> 00:00:48.130 That's why I couldn't do well that. Yeah, especially with like that's 10 00:00:48.130 --> 00:00:50.719 why I was thinking. If we do instruments or something like that, it's 11 00:00:50.719 --> 00:00:56.039 like the our mom constantly fucking should be commenting while we're doing it, like 12 00:00:56.159 --> 00:00:58.000 you can't. Yeah, I feel like we just couldn't do it in peace. 13 00:00:58.079 --> 00:01:02.000 They're like, you know, trum said, no room to like explore 14 00:01:02.240 --> 00:01:04.989 without being judged exactly or like comment that she'll be on the phone saying, 15 00:01:06.030 --> 00:01:11.469 Oh, nick was playing fucking fucking Tom Petty earlier on the drums. You're 16 00:01:11.549 --> 00:01:15.189 like like Oh, like, I felt that when my mom put me like 17 00:01:15.430 --> 00:01:18.819 through piano lessons when I was young. Yeah, and then she'd have people 18 00:01:18.900 --> 00:01:22.340 over for Christmas and Oh, John, show them what you learned in piano 19 00:01:22.379 --> 00:01:26.420 lessons, and I'm like, I'm not, you're fucking trained Mounky's just show 20 00:01:26.939 --> 00:01:30.859 my kid can do. I trained them so crazy hate for him to get 21 00:01:30.939 --> 00:01:34.609 trained. Well, that's that's what it became like a why? What did 22 00:01:34.650 --> 00:01:37.609 I pay for all those lessons for? I like, I thought, so 23 00:01:37.810 --> 00:01:41.250 I could learn piano. Yeah, but it turned out she paid for those 24 00:01:41.290 --> 00:01:47.519 lessons so I could fucking like be your little monkey entertainment our parties, and 25 00:01:47.640 --> 00:01:49.799 she played piano to Huh. Yeah, she's pretty good. I'm glad she 26 00:01:49.959 --> 00:01:55.079 turned me on to music overall, but come on now, just to be 27 00:01:55.200 --> 00:01:59.719 the pet monkey looking with the games in the wells, bells and whistles for 28 00:01:59.760 --> 00:02:02.469 all the guests. Did your mom ever do this? Like, I can't 29 00:02:02.510 --> 00:02:06.709 recall if she did when when we were married, but my mom did this 30 00:02:06.829 --> 00:02:10.750 weird thing before guests would come over. She'd Clean Up, which is pretty 31 00:02:10.870 --> 00:02:14.669 normal. I guess you don't want people, especially if we just got messes 32 00:02:14.669 --> 00:02:17.419 laying around. It's not your best foot forward, but she would clean on 33 00:02:17.580 --> 00:02:21.740 something. That too. It's like, why don't we live this way all 34 00:02:21.780 --> 00:02:23.219 the time? That's like that's just how if it was clean the day you 35 00:02:23.300 --> 00:02:25.500 came over, that's just a happened. To be clean. Just live, 36 00:02:25.780 --> 00:02:30.449 live clean. Like why put on a show for others actually, but my 37 00:02:30.569 --> 00:02:34.490 mom would do it to the point where she would clean before the cleaning lady 38 00:02:34.530 --> 00:02:38.409 would come over because she didn't want the cleaning lady to judge her as being 39 00:02:38.490 --> 00:02:42.090 messy. And I'm like, what are you paying her to do that? 40 00:02:43.050 --> 00:02:46.479 And like that's this odd that's putting on appearances. That's a narcissist thing. 41 00:02:46.639 --> 00:02:53.240 narcissist, like the public appearances is everything. Is that that okay? That's 42 00:02:53.280 --> 00:02:55.719 why I try to think about with her too. It's like this she really 43 00:02:57.199 --> 00:03:00.949 deep down have these thoughts, the thoughts that she says out loud of like 44 00:03:00.669 --> 00:03:04.349 Oh, I just want the best for whatever, for you guys and this, 45 00:03:04.469 --> 00:03:07.110 but it's like or deep down it's like in the end you're driving us 46 00:03:07.110 --> 00:03:10.990 kind of towards what you think will be good for us, for you in 47 00:03:12.069 --> 00:03:16.860 the long run. Right, it's interconnected. Yeah, I mean uncle was 48 00:03:17.020 --> 00:03:21.620 like to me before I went to college. He said, all right, 49 00:03:21.740 --> 00:03:23.580 we'll take care of you guys, you know, if we ever need money 50 00:03:23.580 --> 00:03:27.650 or anything like that, as long as you take care of us later. 51 00:03:27.930 --> 00:03:30.289 Oh yeah, he's straight up said that to me too. He sat me 52 00:03:30.370 --> 00:03:32.729 down. He's like, he's like the whole point of this is that you 53 00:03:32.930 --> 00:03:38.009 guys are going off doing it yourself and you cool take care of the people 54 00:03:38.009 --> 00:03:40.050 who took care of you in the long run. Yeah, I mean that 55 00:03:40.250 --> 00:03:44.439 kind of makes sense, really makes sense, but it's like you took care 56 00:03:44.439 --> 00:03:47.199 of us by option, I guess, or by it right, right, 57 00:03:47.360 --> 00:03:51.919 are by our choice, by the parents choice, right, the parents like 58 00:03:52.840 --> 00:03:54.400 we have. It's like he had Gelsun cars. We don't have what when 59 00:03:54.710 --> 00:03:59.750 go? Yeah, it's myself. Yeah, exactly. I had our mom 60 00:03:59.830 --> 00:04:02.189 with that, Dude said. Our MOM deal with that. Did I spoken 61 00:04:02.310 --> 00:04:06.669 like a Gamer, spawn myself into existence. I sbody did this. Before 62 00:04:06.710 --> 00:04:13.259 I left, was like mom or she was like she was like I was 63 00:04:13.340 --> 00:04:15.699 just getting ready to go here. So I just wasn't. I was just 64 00:04:15.819 --> 00:04:19.579 on my path, doing my thing, not really talking to anyone, and 65 00:04:19.660 --> 00:04:23.860 she would just got to shoot ass Jack Back. What's should ask me what's 66 00:04:23.899 --> 00:04:27.089 wrong. I'd say nothing, that she'd go what's his deal like? When 67 00:04:27.129 --> 00:04:30.529 I leave the room, and then she'd ask me and I just said she's 68 00:04:30.569 --> 00:04:31.810 like, Oh, it just sucks, like you're not happy. It's just 69 00:04:31.970 --> 00:04:38.600 like you festering in pestering me all the time about it. Like do you 70 00:04:38.720 --> 00:04:42.480 ever realize that you're the problem, like you're the stent are like you're part 71 00:04:42.519 --> 00:04:45.279 of the problem, I guess. Yeah, yeah, they know people. 72 00:04:45.920 --> 00:04:49.040 HMM. I don't want to like blame that, like focus on her in 73 00:04:49.120 --> 00:04:53.310 that situation, but like people in general, for sure, it's all about 74 00:04:53.430 --> 00:04:57.670 like well, especially that, what's his problem? As if being silent is 75 00:04:57.670 --> 00:05:00.709 a problem. Yeah, it's like I'm just being quiet. I'm not like 76 00:05:00.670 --> 00:05:04.910 bowing to your little mind. I hate this. See silence to them as 77 00:05:04.910 --> 00:05:09.699 almost as as like worse than a than a negative response. Is like then, 78 00:05:09.779 --> 00:05:13.699 like a is worse to them than a derogatory response to what they want. 79 00:05:13.740 --> 00:05:18.139 Yeah, well, we were just watching a thing on youtube about narcissist. 80 00:05:18.220 --> 00:05:21.290 What was the name of that video? Jack? was that like talk 81 00:05:21.490 --> 00:05:24.930 is their currency? I think it was cool. Yeah, there's a kid 82 00:05:25.009 --> 00:05:28.930 doing the youtube video and his whole the title was talk is their currency, 83 00:05:29.569 --> 00:05:34.410 and that is like narcissist people with the actual narcissistic personality disorder. They fucking 84 00:05:34.529 --> 00:05:39.800 just fill every gap, with every gap of air, with like words about 85 00:05:39.879 --> 00:05:43.519 sin. It's just were as it is. Words are about that, like 86 00:05:43.680 --> 00:05:46.639 it, like in directly about the trying to get gain, yeah, or 87 00:05:46.720 --> 00:05:51.110 about just about them. Yeah, like even like. And then GRANDPA's a 88 00:05:51.149 --> 00:05:55.750 good example, because you just like, yeah, you can't like being a 89 00:05:55.790 --> 00:06:00.509 room for like thirty seconds without him opening his mouth to fill the air with 90 00:06:00.670 --> 00:06:02.350 more noise. I'm like, Dude, I was. Are you just scared 91 00:06:02.470 --> 00:06:05.100 of that's why I think about them too. It's like, are you scared 92 00:06:05.180 --> 00:06:10.060 of the silent? Yeah, silence, is that loneliness? I think it's 93 00:06:10.100 --> 00:06:13.699 a fear of losing control. That's all. Yeah, part of it, 94 00:06:13.819 --> 00:06:15.379 right, because as long as you're stirring up the crazy, if you're the 95 00:06:15.459 --> 00:06:18.490 one stirring up the crazy because you're the only one that has the goggles to 96 00:06:18.569 --> 00:06:23.490 see through the fucking dust you're kicking up, then yeah, you're happy kicking 97 00:06:23.529 --> 00:06:27.970 up crazy, not like yeah, because there is no crazy in silence. 98 00:06:28.009 --> 00:06:30.170 If people who just four, five, six people sitting in room quietly reading 99 00:06:30.209 --> 00:06:33.040 their own book or on their head sets or on their phone or whatever. 100 00:06:33.920 --> 00:06:39.160 Where's the drama? There isn't right. Gets to me is the come into 101 00:06:39.199 --> 00:06:46.519 the room and the announcement of something in their life for the like they already 102 00:06:46.560 --> 00:06:49.310 have the preloaded response. They want a specific like it's like a script in 103 00:06:49.350 --> 00:06:53.990 their head. Yeah, they'll come in the room, they'll say who, 104 00:06:54.709 --> 00:06:57.629 that was a tough walk or some lights. You know, they're like who 105 00:06:57.629 --> 00:07:00.629 if it's hot out, like Oh, you just going to walk? Like 106 00:07:00.620 --> 00:07:03.220 like they want you to ask a question. Yeah, no, I know 107 00:07:03.259 --> 00:07:08.259 what you mean. It's a question stated, you know, put out as 108 00:07:08.300 --> 00:07:12.459 a statement. It's like it's hot outside. Well, onto itself, that 109 00:07:12.660 --> 00:07:16.170 statement does not require any answer. And Yeah, it's actually if everybody has 110 00:07:16.290 --> 00:07:19.410 sit outside, we all have apps on our phone that tells us it's ninety 111 00:07:19.449 --> 00:07:23.209 two. You know, I mean the whole thing, like Uh Huh, 112 00:07:23.250 --> 00:07:26.649 yes, but if you're making a statement that just requires a h Huh yes, 113 00:07:27.810 --> 00:07:30.680 doesn't need a reaction. We're not. We don't live on cell phones. 114 00:07:30.720 --> 00:07:32.600 Like if someone but then they'll say see you. I say things and 115 00:07:32.639 --> 00:07:35.800 that just no one says anything. It's like, but that doesn't qualify or 116 00:07:35.839 --> 00:07:40.279 response, or even it doesn't the qualify response in the first place. Yeah, 117 00:07:40.480 --> 00:07:42.920 say it differently. Yeah, I mean, if it is a question, 118 00:07:43.000 --> 00:07:47.069 question, ask the question. Whatever the question really like in great like 119 00:07:47.149 --> 00:07:49.709 it's re really, you just gotta get it out. figure a way to 120 00:07:50.990 --> 00:07:56.149 make it so we' don't there, you don't not need a response. Yeah, 121 00:07:56.230 --> 00:08:00.899 yeah, just I mean make it so the person not answering is on 122 00:08:01.060 --> 00:08:03.660 the hook. Yeah, exactly, because, like if someone has asked a 123 00:08:03.699 --> 00:08:07.860 direct question, Hey, I'm going to the grocery store. Will you be 124 00:08:07.019 --> 00:08:09.980 here when I get back to help on low groceries? Hey, will you, 125 00:08:11.420 --> 00:08:13.410 you know, feed the dog whatever? That's sense, and then it 126 00:08:13.529 --> 00:08:20.089 can. That's ten times better than saying I'm going to the store, okay, 127 00:08:20.370 --> 00:08:26.329 that's it, come back and then going getting mad with the groceries into 128 00:08:26.370 --> 00:08:30.800 the house, making a big noise, like it's like right, you hear 129 00:08:30.920 --> 00:08:35.399 the wrestling of the of the plastic bags when through the of the door in 130 00:08:35.440 --> 00:08:39.559 the wall, someone, someone kicks the door opened for the front door to 131 00:08:39.600 --> 00:08:43.509 get through, just like they're scared to communicate. Yeah, it's like. 132 00:08:43.710 --> 00:08:46.190 But then that goes back to the thing you said about how their people are 133 00:08:46.269 --> 00:08:48.990 just taught to be reserved, like you, just like from your upbringing. 134 00:08:50.029 --> 00:08:54.470 There's like that's true, especially. I mean well, like I'm fifty and 135 00:08:54.509 --> 00:08:56.059 you guys are like twenty. is so roughly. You know so, but 136 00:08:56.179 --> 00:09:01.740 people are aged generation x and above, for sure, toddle hold different way. 137 00:09:01.860 --> 00:09:05.379 Yeah, especially women. They're taught to not state their feelings, so 138 00:09:05.820 --> 00:09:07.539 it's hard not to state your feeling like so you end up these. You 139 00:09:07.659 --> 00:09:11.970 end up getting your feelings out other ways, and sometimes they're less than direct, 140 00:09:13.450 --> 00:09:16.730 which drives direct people crazy, especially like if you have adhd and you 141 00:09:16.809 --> 00:09:20.649 need simplicity in life and someone just keeps throwing mind games all day and like 142 00:09:20.769 --> 00:09:26.440 what the fuck? So crazy. My my mom was like that and my 143 00:09:26.519 --> 00:09:31.200 dad were like that too. But the trippy thing is everybody has probably one 144 00:09:31.240 --> 00:09:35.120 of those symptoms, at least, just because there's so many symptoms and narcissistic 145 00:09:35.240 --> 00:09:37.960 person yet that that makes you question yourself. You're like, wait, and 146 00:09:37.120 --> 00:09:41.990 my Narsiss if I as am I the secret narcissistic that thinks, Oh, 147 00:09:41.070 --> 00:09:43.710 I'm not a narcissismt everyone around you was thinking. They're like, no, 148 00:09:43.870 --> 00:09:46.309 that's what narcissist would say. I'm not an narcissist. No, I think 149 00:09:46.350 --> 00:09:50.710 that's something once in a while that is narcissistic isn't the same as yeah, 150 00:09:50.870 --> 00:09:56.379 and we having narcissistic tendency exactly. It's like being sad over a sad thing 151 00:09:56.620 --> 00:09:58.620 doesn't mean you have to press yeah, yeah, exactly. Yeah, that 152 00:09:58.980 --> 00:10:03.899 definitely that's it. That's a good point. And but I think a lot 153 00:10:03.940 --> 00:10:07.610 of it just the way you feel like, if you, if whoever's listening 154 00:10:07.690 --> 00:10:09.889 to this, feels kind of like this is kind of fucked up. What 155 00:10:11.009 --> 00:10:13.049 do? I always feel like I'm walking on eggshells and trying to please this 156 00:10:13.210 --> 00:10:18.090 mysterious phantom. Chances are you probably live with the narcissist. Yeah, it's 157 00:10:18.129 --> 00:10:22.720 that feeling they give you. So just checking off a symptoms and everything like 158 00:10:22.799 --> 00:10:26.159 that, it's almost pointless do because there is no pill to take. You 159 00:10:26.240 --> 00:10:28.720 can't get a narcissist to take a pill to recognize it or heal themselves, 160 00:10:28.919 --> 00:10:33.720 and they refuse to see a doctor. Maybe is why. Why would they? 161 00:10:33.759 --> 00:10:35.750 Rands are different on narcissist, like I'm our eyes and stuff like that 162 00:10:35.830 --> 00:10:39.269 are different on under certain areas of questions, I'm sure. I'm not really 163 00:10:39.269 --> 00:10:43.950 sure what brain scans to tell something the doctors. She sparks some to make 164 00:10:43.029 --> 00:10:46.590 it like Oh, yeah, oh, this part of the region the brain, 165 00:10:46.669 --> 00:10:48.629 because right now the brain research in that way is so primitive. It's 166 00:10:48.629 --> 00:10:52.340 like, Oh, look, we can detect pain, we can detect truth 167 00:10:52.379 --> 00:10:54.539 or live. But I'm like, how do you detect personality? Fuckery? 168 00:10:54.740 --> 00:11:00.539 How about? Yeah, how about the Jack? Jack will know like the 169 00:11:01.139 --> 00:11:05.529 Oh, we're gonna do this in the end. That trickles down the tree 170 00:11:05.649 --> 00:11:09.169 to you're going to do this, I'm going to buy it and I'm gonna 171 00:11:09.210 --> 00:11:13.610 throw it on you. Yeah, ourcissistic. I think it's a control thing. 172 00:11:13.169 --> 00:11:18.289 Maybe there is the I was reading a narcrvis share. Doing my bidding 173 00:11:18.529 --> 00:11:22.679 and matter unasked for gifts is a narcissist thing. They give you gifts, 174 00:11:22.720 --> 00:11:26.759 you to ask. This goes back jet dude. Me and Jack were talking 175 00:11:26.759 --> 00:11:31.759 about this one time when I'll be say, say, I'll I would be 176 00:11:31.840 --> 00:11:33.389 upset or something. Not Upset, but yeah, I'm just doing my thing. 177 00:11:35.110 --> 00:11:37.309 Not The TOT's quiet. Sure that's the word. Not Replying, okay, 178 00:11:37.470 --> 00:11:43.629 not replying to things that don't require replies actly, some neutral and then 179 00:11:43.750 --> 00:11:48.620 show out. Someone will ask a question and go, Oh, are you 180 00:11:48.659 --> 00:11:50.500 hungry or blah, blah blah, or like do you want this? Do 181 00:11:50.580 --> 00:11:52.460 you want this? You want this to try to make you feel better, 182 00:11:52.500 --> 00:11:54.419 and you're like, I'm just just just let me, just leave me be. 183 00:11:54.899 --> 00:11:58.059 What I would like is to be left alone. Yeah, and then, 184 00:11:58.899 --> 00:12:01.450 but then they'll buy you something without you even asking, that they know 185 00:12:01.649 --> 00:12:05.649 you like generally, and you're like, okay, I'm not going to not 186 00:12:05.850 --> 00:12:09.250 enjoy the thing, and then they'll use that as a fucking guilt trip after 187 00:12:09.370 --> 00:12:11.049 and they'll go his own. He'll he's only nice to me when I'm buying 188 00:12:11.090 --> 00:12:15.759 a pizza's, yeah, or Star Wars legos and yeah, Geez, it's 189 00:12:15.799 --> 00:12:18.559 like, but I didn't ask for the Star Wars Lego or the pizza. 190 00:12:18.600 --> 00:12:22.039 Yeah, you brought that's trying to suck up to me, to get me 191 00:12:22.080 --> 00:12:26.159 back on your good side so you can manipulate me exactly. So rough it's 192 00:12:26.240 --> 00:12:30.029 just do the bidding for them. Yeah, they call that in you in 193 00:12:30.110 --> 00:12:33.429 narcissist books, flying monkeys, like because the he was at of all. 194 00:12:33.509 --> 00:12:37.389 Yeah, because the evil witch would get her flying monkeys to do her bidding. 195 00:12:37.870 --> 00:12:41.269 narcissist people generally have a close knit group of people around and find the 196 00:12:41.309 --> 00:12:45.659 people like them right. They're not necessarily friends with each other because they talk 197 00:12:45.740 --> 00:12:48.620 shit about each other to they gossip and they talk shit about the people they 198 00:12:48.659 --> 00:12:50.500 say they don't. They're like yeah, yeah, you know, it's they 199 00:12:50.659 --> 00:12:54.179 just like evil monkeys that fly. It's like a little cold of narcissist. 200 00:12:54.259 --> 00:12:58.179 Yeah, alms and well, they can all tolerate each other to some extent, 201 00:12:58.259 --> 00:13:01.649 and then they all feel somewhat in control. So when this send out 202 00:13:01.690 --> 00:13:03.649 the monk is to do their bidding, they're like that's the enemy, and 203 00:13:03.690 --> 00:13:07.330 then all the monkeys are like reporting back on leg exactly shit. Like that's 204 00:13:07.330 --> 00:13:13.919 how we'd feel about like family shit, I guess, about like someone's doing 205 00:13:13.080 --> 00:13:16.559 reek, like why is this person hitting me up out of the blue, 206 00:13:16.600 --> 00:13:20.840 out of nowhere, and asking a general question and then kind of a question 207 00:13:20.879 --> 00:13:22.600 about what we've been going on in the family? Like how do you even 208 00:13:22.600 --> 00:13:24.960 know about that? Oh, I know, right, right, it's all 209 00:13:26.039 --> 00:13:28.230 peripheral. It's like, Oh, you're not transparent at all. But the 210 00:13:28.269 --> 00:13:33.429 funny thing is that's super transparent. Once you start identifying the way they communicate. 211 00:13:33.230 --> 00:13:37.190 Instantly it's a up red flag. They're they're doing that thing again. 212 00:13:37.750 --> 00:13:41.070 You know, it's like Jack has been drawing his world of warcraft character for 213 00:13:41.149 --> 00:13:46.179 the past fifteen minutes. Yeah, rendition with the different direction. I saw 214 00:13:46.299 --> 00:13:50.259 the shoulder pads and then the undeadlooking face and the no mouths. I was 215 00:13:50.299 --> 00:13:52.740 like, Yep, it looks like an fnomes to me. Jack created a 216 00:13:52.860 --> 00:14:01.409 fantastic character that will probably surpass emo joe on t shirts. The sleepy face, 217 00:14:01.490 --> 00:14:03.690 got the sleepy face with the bags under his eyes or above his eyes, 218 00:14:03.809 --> 00:14:09.809 depending on which, or above and below. If he gets a little 219 00:14:09.850 --> 00:14:11.720 HD REVAM. I love that will because it looks kind of almost like a 220 00:14:11.919 --> 00:14:16.320 becomes like a infinity symbol. If you blur your eyes it kind of looks 221 00:14:16.360 --> 00:14:20.600 like one. Anyway. It doesn't like a yeah, it that's exactly. 222 00:14:20.679 --> 00:14:26.110 It has like a balance to it. Got Love Things and balance, the 223 00:14:26.269 --> 00:14:30.789 simple, the simple, like McDonald says, the simpler the better. We 224 00:14:30.830 --> 00:14:33.149 should watch the founder. I think you'd like it. I see you have 225 00:14:33.230 --> 00:14:35.909 seen it. I don't want to watch it. If Nick has already seen 226 00:14:37.029 --> 00:14:39.100 that, I watched again. I saw you, sure, Wayne, coming 227 00:14:39.139 --> 00:14:41.059 back from Florida like a couple years ago. Oh and the rest of inglorious 228 00:14:41.059 --> 00:14:45.179 pastards. Yes, at the first that for sure. We're going to rewind. 229 00:14:46.340 --> 00:14:48.460 We're going to the fast bender part the party. Fast pender came in 230 00:14:50.179 --> 00:14:54.210 and got sent to the little bar underground. Will start there. I wasn't 231 00:14:54.250 --> 00:14:56.450 buying Brad Pitt at the beginning, but then once they got to he just 232 00:14:56.529 --> 00:15:00.730 sticks with it, you know what I mean? That's here. That's that's 233 00:15:00.730 --> 00:15:05.090 a characters like he can't just say Nancy's every time. They fucking say where 234 00:15:05.330 --> 00:15:09.120 Nancy's nasty hunters. It's pretty funny. I like it. There's there's a 235 00:15:09.159 --> 00:15:13.240 lot of people in that movie. There's weather's Daniel Brule. Is that one 236 00:15:13.240 --> 00:15:18.559 dude? And then Mike Myers, yeah, the kid from the office that 237 00:15:18.720 --> 00:15:22.230 Mark Marin hates Novak. Yeah, and then there's that one other dude that 238 00:15:22.309 --> 00:15:26.950 we're like, isn't he and stuff? He's like a little see's like a 239 00:15:26.070 --> 00:15:28.950 b side actor, I think. Oh well, couple people from the Marvel 240 00:15:30.070 --> 00:15:33.470 Universe and fast benders in there right. I think the lady was in a 241 00:15:33.590 --> 00:15:37.580 man, I mean in fucking Captain America, The lady they met at the 242 00:15:37.620 --> 00:15:41.259 bar downstairs. You might have fallen asleep at that point and maybe that's it 243 00:15:41.419 --> 00:15:46.899 was good, though. Well, rewind little, really wind, Jackie Brown. 244 00:15:46.940 --> 00:15:48.379 I can't believe you guys haven't Seen Jack Brown. That's one of the 245 00:15:48.460 --> 00:15:52.649 more fun fucking modern day because it's all Tarantino. It's like the modern day 246 00:15:52.730 --> 00:16:00.690 soundtrack. Heard it's been. It's been, what's the word? Titled as 247 00:16:00.730 --> 00:16:04.000 a or something like that, as a hangout movie, designated like a talkie 248 00:16:04.240 --> 00:16:11.879 cult classic hang out. Like the way the dialog goes throughout the movie, 249 00:16:11.879 --> 00:16:15.639 I heard, is like hangout, ee. That's what it's faired. Lots 250 00:16:15.639 --> 00:16:18.669 of people hanging out. For sure, you can just chilling shit. Every 251 00:16:18.710 --> 00:16:22.029 once in a while someone gets killed. There you go and Oh, but 252 00:16:22.110 --> 00:16:26.350 there's also this ominous threat throughout the movie because there's two feds trying to track 253 00:16:26.389 --> 00:16:30.110 down gun runners. Geez, I don't know the story. Yeah, that's 254 00:16:30.149 --> 00:16:33.139 basically that's Jackie browns caught in the middle of it because she's transporting money in 255 00:16:33.220 --> 00:16:37.980 her case. All right, nick, I say you give us a little 256 00:16:37.100 --> 00:16:41.899 outro with this character. All Right, so Jack has been drawing to character 257 00:16:42.019 --> 00:16:45.820 and now nick is going to give it out. Now I just sound now, 258 00:16:45.899 --> 00:16:48.850 I just think of an undead from wow. It's like, but tod 259 00:16:48.850 --> 00:16:52.169 they already have a sound. Well, what's a line that say? You 260 00:16:52.250 --> 00:17:00.129 go to the loot, you got to sell some items. They're like how 261 00:17:00.169 --> 00:17:03.599 does the undead when see, I just got the undeads from wow in my 262 00:17:03.680 --> 00:17:12.000 head. Now they're like go forth right, the forsaken ones. What if 263 00:17:12.200 --> 00:17:17.470 that thing had red hair, you know, to spice it up a little 264 00:17:17.470 --> 00:17:21.269 bit? I guess. How would that sounded? Look a little nasal thought. 265 00:17:21.950 --> 00:17:26.670 Yeah, I like naked little zest. Maybe got to make a make 266 00:17:26.710 --> 00:17:30.900 a nasal drop a little Tony Tony share hes on it, one of those, 267 00:17:30.740 --> 00:17:33.380 one of the little pads as they due on all first you got her. 268 00:17:34.259 --> 00:17:40.220 Yeah, making kind of neas. I guess some fucking weird sounds in 269 00:17:40.259 --> 00:17:41.779 here, but I'm not sure I have that one yet. What was the 270 00:17:41.819 --> 00:17:48.970 one we added besides the Randy Marshall One? Let me see, big rain. 271 00:17:48.170 --> 00:17:52.849 What was? Oh, Hey, pe, fuck you. That was 272 00:17:52.890 --> 00:18:00.319 older. Here's a bunch of Oh knows, the Vince Neil all rock and 273 00:18:00.440 --> 00:18:15.589 shout, the double and been do, but do the fucking Vince Neil. 274 00:18:15.509 --> 00:18:21.430 I guess. Got Several hundred bucks off some fan APP and you can. 275 00:18:21.630 --> 00:18:23.630 You can. You could submit pay a bunch of money and have them like 276 00:18:23.829 --> 00:18:26.779 record. They'll be your monkey for a little bit. Yeah, we we 277 00:18:26.819 --> 00:18:32.660 can record a greeting. So someone paid the Motley Cruz singer like six hundred 278 00:18:32.700 --> 00:18:37.180 bucks and he records this shit like at home going up the elevator in Vegas 279 00:18:37.220 --> 00:18:42.809 and he's super drunk. Yeah, a shath of brothers. It's a big 280 00:18:42.930 --> 00:18:48.170 four. Oh, I heard they announced another farewell to her. Oh yeah, 281 00:18:48.569 --> 00:18:53.170 she'ses bien do some bid do. I can't even. I can't imagine 282 00:18:53.210 --> 00:18:57.960 how much those tickets were for the first farewell. I can because we went 283 00:18:59.440 --> 00:19:03.480 really where the last show, the very last. Yeah, staple center, 284 00:19:04.839 --> 00:19:10.549 New Year's Eve. That was last show ever. Two thousand and seventeen. 285 00:19:11.750 --> 00:19:15.309 Sixteen or seventeen. We got our tshirts in the parking lot from the black 286 00:19:15.309 --> 00:19:18.910 dude who had pirated shit. He had already made like privated shirts. Is 287 00:19:18.990 --> 00:19:21.990 like a super bowl ones of the other team. But plus, these were 288 00:19:22.190 --> 00:19:23.940 these were great because they were bad. I mean they were just kind of 289 00:19:25.019 --> 00:19:27.140 fucked up looking like I was like, contin that's awesome, but he was 290 00:19:27.220 --> 00:19:30.579 doing it for like ten bucks and they're getting like fifty bucks inside by do 291 00:19:32.140 --> 00:19:33.980 and I'm like the same concert and we're like the probably tour again, anyway. 292 00:19:34.900 --> 00:19:44.529 Oh and hey, look there they are, toured again. Go vious 293 00:19:44.609 --> 00:19:49.490 new bid any other narcissism topics. We can talk about the samples. That 294 00:19:49.650 --> 00:19:52.680 was pretty free flow. There was some good examples in that article. I 295 00:19:52.720 --> 00:19:56.279 could share the link to the article in the notes below. Hey, click 296 00:19:56.400 --> 00:20:02.400 below and hit subscribe. But yeah, there's play. I mean I always 297 00:20:02.400 --> 00:20:07.109 figured people listening to a podcast also have the Internet. thinking. Pretty much 298 00:20:07.109 --> 00:20:11.349 key in any any turn we talked about. But I think a lot of 299 00:20:11.390 --> 00:20:15.589 people that deal with narcissist in their immediate environment we're probably sitting there nodding their 300 00:20:15.630 --> 00:20:18.549 heads to everything we said. Come Fuck, yeah, oh, totally, 301 00:20:19.269 --> 00:20:22.940 and this and that and you know, because once you find people that experience 302 00:20:23.019 --> 00:20:26.180 the same shit, it's like I'll hear the specific examples, but oh yeah, 303 00:20:26.579 --> 00:20:30.140 you burned your hand with fire on a stove, so did I. 304 00:20:30.380 --> 00:20:33.059 Well, then you find those people. But when you find people that are 305 00:20:33.180 --> 00:20:37.529 they're experiencing the thing that we've been trained not to even think as a thing, 306 00:20:37.730 --> 00:20:42.049 because fucking people with MPD will gas light you, they'll make you think 307 00:20:42.089 --> 00:20:47.410 you're crazy, they'll create all this crazy span and nonsense. They like put 308 00:20:47.450 --> 00:20:51.319 it back on you as if it were you. So, especially to the 309 00:20:51.359 --> 00:20:53.440 listener, if you think you're feeling crazy, but you know, you're not 310 00:20:53.640 --> 00:20:57.559 actually crazy, you're not hearing voices kind of crazy. But if you feel 311 00:20:57.599 --> 00:21:00.160 like you're nuts, you probably not nuts. You probably like us. You're 312 00:21:00.200 --> 00:21:06.390 probably just like a victim of like narcissistic abuse, in the Flying Bok, 313 00:21:06.430 --> 00:21:11.950 acissism, control or some other good words. Control is the big one, 314 00:21:12.029 --> 00:21:14.710 for sure. But, and you know, the thing is, though, 315 00:21:15.309 --> 00:21:18.390 it's their disorder, but since they can't get help, like, what do 316 00:21:18.430 --> 00:21:21.700 you do? Form like I have sympathy for people that are drunks, heroin 317 00:21:21.740 --> 00:21:23.740 addicts, any kind of mental disorder. I mean, yeah, okay, 318 00:21:23.779 --> 00:21:27.619 you got a thing, you acknowledge it, you deal with it. narcissists 319 00:21:27.700 --> 00:21:30.779 never acknowledge it. That's their thing, that is part of their thing. 320 00:21:32.099 --> 00:21:33.130 And like, well, how do you deal with that? And every expert 321 00:21:33.170 --> 00:21:37.809 of ever seen or read about it's like you can't. You just have to. 322 00:21:37.930 --> 00:21:42.009 Basically, you are a narcissist drug. They're addicted to you. What 323 00:21:42.089 --> 00:21:47.049 do you think happens if you call them out just blatantly, right to their 324 00:21:47.130 --> 00:21:48.960 face? Yeah, they don't know. I'm the NARM experiences, like they 325 00:21:49.000 --> 00:21:52.000 don't like the fat. Yeah, you can diagnose me now. Okay, 326 00:21:52.160 --> 00:21:55.759 okay, that's what I am. So let me tell you what you are. 327 00:21:55.799 --> 00:21:57.400 Yeah, they turn it on you. It'll it'll total deflection, like 328 00:21:57.640 --> 00:22:02.349 it'll just deflect right off in the right field, foul ball, like he'd 329 00:22:02.390 --> 00:22:03.829 like you did even hit the ball. They're like, bring up something that 330 00:22:03.910 --> 00:22:08.190 you did two months ago or just for forty years ago. Yeah, they 331 00:22:08.349 --> 00:22:11.349 carry some shit for decades, Dude. That's the weirdest thing. That's when 332 00:22:11.349 --> 00:22:15.470 you start to realize, Oh yeah, I actually can't be too entangled with 333 00:22:15.630 --> 00:22:18.339 that. You're like, why are you doing about some shit like that's not 334 00:22:18.420 --> 00:22:21.700 obviously people change. Do you never change? I guess no, no, 335 00:22:21.900 --> 00:22:23.180 they don't, not in that way, not in a way that puts the 336 00:22:25.339 --> 00:22:29.539 burden of change on them. Yeah, Oh, you made me change, 337 00:22:29.579 --> 00:22:30.930 I had to or this and that, or the world's against me, or 338 00:22:30.970 --> 00:22:34.450 something like playing the victim is in habit that's out of they're all on that's 339 00:22:34.490 --> 00:22:40.329 either all on your side or a hundred percent for you or, yeah, 340 00:22:40.410 --> 00:22:42.849 negatively towards you, for sure. That's how I feel about fascism. Like 341 00:22:42.970 --> 00:22:48.759 the ideologic the ide the ideology of fascism is you're either a hundred percent with 342 00:22:48.839 --> 00:22:52.880 us or we're a hundred percent against you. So there's no room for deviation 343 00:22:52.000 --> 00:22:56.039 of thought. And that's just exactly how, like a lot of hardcore narcissists, 344 00:22:56.079 --> 00:23:00.309 aarts like well, you do think by way, and we make things 345 00:23:00.309 --> 00:23:03.309 appear to be this way and you're going to be a happy damn it, 346 00:23:03.509 --> 00:23:06.670 and that's it. As like well, except for on Saturdays, I like 347 00:23:06.710 --> 00:23:10.549 to do this. NOPE, you're the enemy, kind of like a bad 348 00:23:10.549 --> 00:23:19.180 Alpen, Cheeto, bad bade. Now back to the wall, and now, 349 00:23:21.220 --> 00:23:27.849 and now, you gotta get a bottom of her voice in the world 350 00:23:27.970 --> 00:23:32.569 somewhere. Probably shouldn't said his name, but still, I can still eat 351 00:23:32.609 --> 00:23:37.210 this part out. I might cut it about thirty seconds back or just put 352 00:23:37.289 --> 00:23:41.839 this in. Oh right, cool. Well, thanks for listening. And 353 00:23:41.000 --> 00:23:45.319 if you didn't know, the two people have been talking to all my sons. 354 00:23:45.440 --> 00:23:51.680 That's Nick and that's Jack. I'm nick. High Nick Jack, Hi 355 00:23:51.799 --> 00:23:55.789 Jack. We both sound pretty similar, I imagine. I would imagine so 356 00:23:55.990 --> 00:24:00.549 too. So, yeah, if we were a family of emotions, that's 357 00:24:00.710 --> 00:24:07.549 nick emotions and Jack Emotions. Jack, deep bub all righty. Well, 358 00:24:07.910 --> 00:24:10.380 you have a great day. Thanks for listening to the PODCAST. We'll talk 359 00:24:10.420 --> 00:24:15.740 to you next time. Subscribe to piple this style on e cheese and spotify. 360 00:24:17.380 --> 00:24:22.019 Follow along on twitter. He's so stupid. And now back to the 361 00:24:22.099 --> wall.