John talks about “attunement” — what it is, what it is not, why it matters, and how we can all get more of it in our lives.
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It's only in your head and now
it's online. Ad bip this stylecom yes,
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Johnny motions with bipoon style. Hey, welcome back. For New listeners,
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I'm glad you found me, and
for those of you who have been
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listening for a long time, happy
two thousand and twenty. We made it
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into the new year and I'm really
happy that you hear so enjoy. Today's
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episode is about a thing I've been
researching called a tunement, spelled att UN
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e M and T attunement. This
episode we'll talk about what a tunement is,
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what it is not, the many
ways you can find positive attunement and
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a few ways where you can encounter
some negative attunement. So let's get started.
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Kind of create a mood here and
after the musical break will start some
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talking. What does it it's pretty
profound, right. What does it take
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to be loves? Nothing at all. So I've been reading a lot of
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books, as I do lately over
the holidays. I've been reading books about
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attention deficit, disorder, add adhd
driven to distraction, scattered and elastic mind.
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I think was the third title.
It's neat when you read books because
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you can instantly gather the you know
years of research from one person and put
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it in your brain. It's kind
of like downloading a new patch when you
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read three books at the same time
about similar topics. That that's even cooler,
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because then you get to think in
three dimensions and maybe so some common
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thread between the different books that didn't
necessarily exist but that maybe should. Since
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I'm not an author, I'm not
going to write a book about it,
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I'm just going to talk about it. And again, I'm a lay person,
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so take this all with the grain
of salt, but I think you
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might like me to find that met
much of this just rings true. So
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in one of the books I was
reading they talked about a really interesting study
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back from the S and into study
they take a mom and a baby,
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an infant, not just one,
you know, they did many pairs of
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moms and infants, and they would
have the mom interact with the baby in
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a room and then they would take
the baby to a different room, or
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the mom whatever. They would separate
the mom from the baby, put them
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in different rooms, each with a
camera so that they could kind of communicate
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in real time but through cameras.
Long and short of it, that turned
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out okay. In real time,
communicating with people via cameras is very similar
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to communicating with real people in real
life. Cool. Then they did the
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kind of mixed up two different Sir
Research Studies. There was a previous one
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called the still face study, with
the which the mom would interact with the
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baby, smile, Google, got, got, all that kind of stuff,
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and then the mom would just go
blank. On purpose, the MOM
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would make her face blank. If
you see any of these videos on Youtube
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of the still face study or still
face research, it's pretty disturbing watching a
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baby communicate with the the mom and
then the mom's face goes blank. The
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baby starts doing anything to reanimate that
MOM's face. Start Google got me.
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It's really disturbing. So with the
to television study, I think that's what
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it was called, the to TV
study, when they say they kind of
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inserted a time delay so that the
baby would communicate with the mom and vice
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versa, but on a delay,
there was no actual synchronization. There's no
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immediacy. So the term they came
up with was a tunement. I think
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in today's kind of parlance you'd call
it presence, like you should be more
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present in your life, which is
sort of it's sort of the same thing.
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But presents to me doesn't require other
people. You can be present in
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your life and staring at a tree. Well, the tree doesn't care that
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you're staring at it, but you're
present, you're in the moment, you
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just you're present. Right. A
tunement, on the other hand, requires
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another living mammal, let's say.
I don't think it really works well with
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reptiles or lower functioning creatures. It
may if you're a Hippie, and by
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the way, if you're searching the
Internet right now for the term atunement,
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you might find it in kind of
the crystals and candles set in that community,
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because they're all about a tunement,
but they're talking about organic energy and
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you know Shit like that. That
not scientific stuff. The atunement I'm talking
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about is basically scientific research to see
how humans communicate. So just mind yourself
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if you're out there looking for a
tunement. So anyway, with the TV's
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but the to TV study, what
they found was just simply by interjecting a
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time delay, it had the same
effect on the baby as the still face
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experiment. And other words, communicating
in anything but immediate real time is not
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communicating well at all. You might
as well send a letter Pony Express,
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you might as well text somebody.
There's a couple articles of reading talking about
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don't you hate it when you get
left on read? In other words,
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you text somebody, you see that
they read it but they don't reply.
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An other words, they're out of
a tunement. That person and just pulled
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the still face experiment on you.
You were communicating back and forth, left
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and right, and all of a
sudden they stopped. They broke the attunement,
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and so I'm like, why was
I even looking into this? Well,
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for one, I like to study
about how the brain works and I
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was reading up on add and ADHD. But what got me started on the
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whole idea was this constant headline about
how social media is bad for the kids.
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Social media is bad for the kids. Well, Shit, I'm generation
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X. I was literally born in
Silicon Valley to at the time all the
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stuff came to be. So I've
been around computers. We used to have
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to code and basic and see plus
plus and cobal all that stuff. So
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computers are not new to me.
Social Media, I was there at the
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beginning. I see its value,
but I also wonder like why are so
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many kids becoming depressed? And it
turns out social media as more like,
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HMM, candy, I guess is
a good metaphor. Once a child discovers
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candy, that's all they want to
eat. But you can't survive on candy.
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You can't survive on social media.
In other words, what social media
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is good for is one thing,
but what it also does is it pushes
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out all of the other things.
You can't survive on a diet of social
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media the same way you can't survive
on a diet of candy. You need
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real human interaction, just like you
need salad and water and Sun Shine.
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So to convince yourself that social media
will cover all of the bases is foolish.
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You've got to go interact with people. The less you interact with people,
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the less you're going to want to
interact with people, and pretty soon
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you're going to be a social and
you just going to be stuck. So
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kind of the same way with candy. If You keep eating candy, nothing
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else is going to taste good.
You've got to reset your system so that
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the right things, the healthy things, actually taste good. Or Yeah,
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people. You're not eating people,
but you know what I mean, what
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the Heggy talking about. So the
idea that we should maybe minimize social media
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is only valid to the extent that
you fill that extra time with humans,
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like by doing things with with humans. Or, here's another idea, with
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pets. You can be at tuned
to a pet. In fact, if
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you're in the wild, it's a
good idea that you be attuned to nature
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or you will be eaten. But
the same whole true with domestic animals.
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If you have a dog or a
cat or a bird or anything that like
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can respond to you in real time, that welcomes you when you get home,
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that jumps up on the bed in
the morning, you're both in a
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tunement. That's important. That's why
people with pets live longer than people with
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don't. That's why people with families
and support structures have better lives than people
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without. And don't get me wrong, I'm generally a we you call it,
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independent, minded person alone or,
if you will, I appreciate time
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alone and I think that's important as
well. Another part of the Diet,
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I guess, maybe a felone time
was salt and social media was sugar.
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Yeah, those things are fine,
but you still need actual human interaction and
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I'm like, well, Jeez,
if social media is not it, there's
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no real time interaction. You Post
to post, you hope somebody likes it,
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you hope somebody comments, but they're
not immediate. And I'm thinking,
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well, what can technologically advanced kids
these days fill their diet with that is
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not social media but is still digital, and it really comes down to like
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chat APPs sometimes, but more importantly, like video conferencing real time, like
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facetime apps like that, where you
can see somebody and you could talk in
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a video and get a real reaction. That is going to be infinitely better
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than texting or leaving a post on
somebody's social media stream or wall or whatever
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you want to call it. And
also things like gaming, online gaming,
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twitch, mixer, places like that, where you you're involved, you're a
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tuned because if you're not, you're
going to get blasted out of your spaceship
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right some big monsters going to come
eat you. You're tuned and you're interacting
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with other humans in real time in
a positive way. Musicians know this.
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When you're playing in the band,
you're all focused on the song. You're
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a tuned. Most people for the
moment that they are in a band playing
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that song, are not feeling the
effects of anxiety or depression there in the
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moment. They are tuned to the
song with the other people in the band.
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Same thing would go with military operations
street gangs, if they're not doing
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harmful things. But even if they
are doing harmful things, within the community
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a gang, for example, there
are a tune to one another and they
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feel that sense of connectedness, of
togetherness. So some positive attunements aside from
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like, and this is also like
for people who just don't like to go
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out in public. I know many
people that listen just kind of get stuck.
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You're stuck indoors. So there are
ways like cut pick up a phone
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and talk to somebody. You don't
actually have to see them a telephone call.
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You're a tune. You can hear
people breathe, you can hear them
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the sound of disgust if you tell
them something that they didn't want to hear.
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You could almost hear somebody smile if
you're communicating in real time through a
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phone and video conferencing and gaming and
in a band in the jungle with your
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domestic pets. Those are all great
ways to fill your life. With more
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attunement. So if you're if you're
on social media, cool, but try
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to add some more of those elements
to the mix and I think you'll start
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feeling a lot better because you be
a more tuned you feel like you're part
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of humanity. And then, of
course, when you've had enough, you
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can back away from the computer,
you know, leave the crowd or whatever
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and go be alone, sit in
the tree, swing and whistle, whatever
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you want to do. That's alone
time, but it's different. So the
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attunement factor is huge. But here's
something you have to watch out for.
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There are creatures on this planet called
narcissists. This suffer from something called narcissistic
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personality disorder, and a lot of
people with like borderline personality disorder, I
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think, in my experience anyway,
it's because they were raised by narcissists.
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People with borderline were often programmed at
birth and through their younger years by narcissist
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to feel that way, to feel
that they just don't fit in, because
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the narcissist will never see a shrink
and doesn't have their own needs met,
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so they use others as their kind
of addictive substance or source. Like if
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you are living with us. With
the narcissist. You're the source of their
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addiction. They need you to survive. The problem is narcissists are very attuned
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to their subjects, to their victims. So what a narcissist will do in
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the sense of attunement is they'll take
all of those things they're paying attention to
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and use them against you, to
coerce you or manipulate you. So in
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this sense, a tunement with other
humans, though, isn't always positive.
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You have really have to make sure
it's, you know, uplifting and positive
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attunement as opposed to negative, damaging
attunement. It's funny, you know,
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if you listen to the show,
I don't like him, not like a
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church person, but in testing my
theory I'm like, well, I felt
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like Shit, especially around the holidays, where I was super depressed. I
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kind of push off my depression until
after the holidays, you know, put
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on a good face and just smile
and make it through the holidays, and
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then come the first week of January
I'm usually a pretty big mess anyway.
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In that time frame I kind of
like, well, I should test my
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theory. Is it just being around
people make you happy? So I went
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to this like a black church down
the street here, went and check that
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out. I was raised in Southern
Baptist churches, so that's familiar to me
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and I think I like black people
more than a white people a lot of
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the time. So I went down
to church and very welcoming. They invited
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me in open arms. The church
filled up, probably made three hundred people
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inside the sanctuary area. I had
to stand up and introduce myself in front
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of all these people, but then
we sang and then we clapped and we
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listen to the preachers give his story. Well, I thought was really cool
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was the pastor or preacher, I
forget what Baptists call themselves. Anyway,
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the guy in charge up there.
He started going on with the band.
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The band was playing like the little
riff, little vamp in the background,
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and the pastor is like and those
people that Walmart, they calling you out
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your name and their gossip in behind
your back. And then the people in
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the audience were like yeah, pretty
too, brother, preach it. And
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then him being a tuned with their
energy, he kind of felt kind of
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like a good comic. You know, when you're on a bit and it's
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working, you just go in,
you double down on that bit, because
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a comic because a tune to his
audience or her audience. The same way
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this pastor was a tune to the
church audience. He would keep up Matt
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every time he got a little better
response from the crowd, he would double
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down on that topic. He was
a tune. So it built, it
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built the audience into this like fervor
of energy and upbeaten happiness, all atunement.
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A hundred percent of Tu me.
Yet the band in a tune with
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each other. You had the preacher
at tuned with the congregation and I was
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just in the middle of it thinking, man, my fucking theory is working,
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and in fact it worked enough I
overcame I dislike of religion and the
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crazy stories. And you know,
the reality is I just don't like religion
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mostly because it's full of hypocrites.
I hold them to a higher standard.
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Like everybody's a hypocrite, sure,
but not everybody goes to church and pretends
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they're not a hypocrite. So that's
the issue I have with church. But
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anyway, all things hypocrisy aside,
the attunement one finds into church is very,
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very powerful, and I think that
might be a huge reason why people
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turn to religion. It's not for
the crazy mythological stories, it's for being
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around other people doing the same thing. You'll find the same thing, the
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same enjoyment at a concert, at
a sporting event, all these things.
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Humans become a tuned to the same
thing at the same time, and that's
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critical. That's why you leave those
events feeling a certain way. You can
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also feel a certain way if you
just practice little bits of a tunement throughout
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your life every day. You know, animals, small events, pick up
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a telephone call and talk to somebody
in real time, get on twitch and,
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you know, talk to whoever,
other gamers, people presenting things.
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And then, on course, on
the flip side, if you feel like
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you're in attunement with somebody that's negative
and as using it to manipulate or course,
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you curseh or coerce, you then
of course, do what you need
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to do to remove yourself from that
situation. And then, so you know,
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weeks, a couple months or whatever
after I fill my head with all
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this information in the theory about a
tunement. Now I look for it everywhere
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I go and I make special notes
of places and things that I enjoy being
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at tuned to nature, sporting events. I'm a big movie Fan, so
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I like to see movies at a
theater. A lot of people like,
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why do you go to theater?
Why don't you just see it on cable?
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Well, for one, I don't
pay attention when it's on a small
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screen with the lights on, with
fucking laptop or what all that stuff.
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I'm just I've scatter brain. I
need the focus. But then I realized
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that the moment that movie ends,
all of the other people in the theater
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and myself, we were a tuned
for all that time and we all left
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with the same experience. So there's
lots of different ways you can become a
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tuned and challenge you to keep your
eyes and ears open for things that you
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feel attuned to in a positive way
and also guard yourself against any negative attunement
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that might be used to manipulate you. Cool, all right. So yeah,
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that's my whole bit on a tunment. I hope you enjoyed it.
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